A Gentleman's Guide to Having Sex on the First Date

Long-term relationships are amazing for many reasons. But there are at least the same number of reasons why having the same person next to you for a long time isn't smart. And sex is one of the main reasons for the breakup of long-term relationships for men with high libidos.

So...

The solution?

Casual dating, hookups, one-night stands, call it as you like...

Most men who love sex try to engage in casual dating, yet it turns out that most women play games.

"No, nothing before the 3rd date..."

"What do you mean, we've only been on 3 dinners?"

So instead of having sex the first day, guys waste days or weeks to get any action... Almost like a long-term, sexless relationship...

So...

The solution?

This guide for sex on the first date...

Online Dating > Everything Else When It Comes to First Date Sex

Where do you catch an elephant? At the place, it visits every day.

Now let's look at some simple math...

Most women don't have sex with anyone they've just met. Yet, most guys still go to clubs to pick up girls. And most girls go to clubs to... Wait for it... Dance with their friends.

We know. So insane.

And even if a guy meets a girl in a club, there's no guarantee of a hookup.

Yet, imagine a guy meets a girl on a chicks2fuck site that's clearly a hookup site focused on connecting horny local singles. If a girl is there and using the Hot or Not feature that speeds up the matchmaking process, she wants to have sex. The best part is that most singles who meet online have a video chat before meeting in person...

That boosts safety and it lets them check the chemistry without actually meeting. It's like a pseudo-date before the real date...

Once a couple meets face to face, they've already had all the chats, so they don't have to waste time and can focus on having sex immediately.

How to Get More Sex on First Dates with Singles From Dating Sites

But it doesn't mean that every guy with a profile on a good hookup site can just log in and choose a woman to fuck. It doesn't work like that even in most saturated areas such as big cities in the US.

The most common mistake singles make on sex sites is focusing on appearance too much. Just because sex is primarily a physical activity, it doesn't mean that girls only want to see your body.

For women, sex is never only physical, even one-night stands. They need emotions. And don't mix that with love because love is just one of them. They have to see that there's more to you than body and penis even though you may never speak to each other.

So to instantly get more attention on sex sites, move your focus from sex... Be a bit mysterious.

The profile description shouldn't just say - 7 inches, 6 feet tall, loves giving oral sex

Reading something like that makes women feel like they're reading ingredients on a hair dye. And shows that those 7 inches are attached to 6 feet of a guy with the personality of a door knob.

At What Moment Do You Start Talking About Sex

This may differ depending on location, but the sooner the better.

For example, guys who still try their luck in clubs, can probably slip in a casual "Hey, wanna hookup?" in any conversation after 2 AM. The worst they can hear is no.

Those who hope to get sex on general dating sites can't afford to wait that long. On general dating platforms (those for casual and long-term relationships), every person should make it clear from their description what they hope to get from the site. That saves a lot of time and lets them be more direct on chat.

Yet those who connect with local singles on hookup sites have the best of both worlds...

They know that everyone they meet there is seeking sex partners. They can be direct and they don't have to guess anything.

What Not to Do if You Want to Have Sex on the First Date

This one might be an article of its own, so we'll use some bullets to give as much tip in as few words:

• Neglect your sex hygiene!
• Use a dic pic as an icebreaker
• Give too many compliments
• Make all compliments about their looks
• Choose a creepy location for a first date
• Don't ask questions that scream insecurity (nothing about body count, size, etc.)

There you have it...

A quick and simple guide for men who want to have more sex with fewer dates...

Because sex on the first date is numerous times better than the best sex with a sex toy.